Focus on the Positive...but Develop from the Negatives

You know those women who complain about never having any money but seem to lead a life of luxury?  The ones who buy their fancy $8 coffee every morning, yet complain there is no food in the house. You know the ladies I mean.  They always have their nails freshly done from the salon, but complain they have too many bills they can't pay. These women are always buying expensive makeup or accessories at upscale boutiques.  Always ordering some new frugal item, anything they want it seems. Yet they are always asking to borrow money or looking for handouts. And, it's like, you want to tell them,  if I spent money on those things, I would be the most energized homeless woman with the prettiest face and fanciest nails of all the women who live in boxes on this street ! Yes, splurging on yourself sometimes is absolutely necessary,  but things like rent, groceries,  and children (if you have any) need to come first. If you don't have money for