Focus on the Positive...but Develop from the Negatives

That moment when you realize things are the way they are because people hold on to misconceptions from the past. When you officially know relationships can never improve because a toxic person is still controlling someone's beliefs over proven reality. That moment when you realize some people would rather hold onto pride and being right than friends or family. When you acknowledge that they throw relationship after relationship away by never trying to truly understand, always believing something is wrong with the other person & never once taking accountability for their own actions. That moment when hope is all gone. When you finally know you were right all along, even though you wished you had it wrong.    That's a sad moment.  Because you try to move on from the past, offer forgiveness, even give a second chance.  You can acknowledge your own mistakes, desiring a mended relationship, almost whatever it takes.  So, it's difficult to accept other people aren't as ca