All any of us can do in this life is be the best version of ourselves that we can be. Not all of us will be famous stars influencing fans or scientists curing diseases; in fact, most of us will not be. But whom each of us has the power to be is a good person to others by spreading kindness and helping everyone we can in whatever way we can. Just be sure your gifts of kindness and actions of help are genuine, without ever expecting reciprocation, without ever becoming bitter that you gave too much Leave others feeling better about themselves after being in your presence, not feeling worse. Never intend to leave anyone feeling hurt, upset, or insecure It is important to always strive to be the bigger person in all your affairs. Don't treat haters how they have treated you; do not seek revenge or retaliate to those you feel wronged by, but respond in the way you would like someone to treat you. Should you ever find yourself in a position of power, use it to do more good, never to prom
I had to think about the second part of this one a bit, but I do concur. \ Haters tend to hate people they feel intimated or threatened by, in competition with, or envious of. Usually, there is no real reason for their hatred, other than those people are different than them; whether in looks, personality, interests, or any other qualities. In acknowledging that, if people are hating on someone who tries to be kind and respectful to all, somebody truly altruistic in their helping of others, it is fairly safe to conclude the haters lack some — or all — of those genuine qualities in themselves. Therefore, the good person is being hated by the "right" people in that they are hated simply because they are not hateful like the haters, nor would they ever want to be filled with hatred like them in exchange for their not being hated! This not only reveals the haters for whom they really are, but also confirms the good person the "hatee" is. Thus, in this case, it is ac